be having kids that late in life; you (the collective you, not you personally <g>) think KG is going to be around to see his son graduate high school, go to college, get married and have his own kids? You think he'll have the energy to handle a toddler in a couple years? More work for the wife...though probably more work for the nanny TBH.
How weird would it be to be 41 and have a sibling 40 years younger than you? The age gap is such that Big Bro is old enough to be Little Bro's grandfather, for heaven's sake!
A few nights ago, I had a dream that my mom was still alive and roughly the age when she died (82) and was pregnant and even in my dream, I was all "huh?"