but once I got into the workforce--I understood. Acting is a job. These people spend 10-16 hours a day, sometimes 8 days a week together. They are not required to be friends or even like each other. It's a job. They might just see them as co-workers. Do you always like your co-workers? I don't. There are people who I really clash with because:
1. Personality traits are totally different
2. I don't like how they move (actions, tone, attitude)
3. Some people do not like to mix professional/personal.
I think the key is to be professional. Do your job. Don't delay things over stupid stuff. Actors have big egos. Some are divas. If actors are on set 10-14 hours--the crew is there like 2 hours prior/after.
Katherine Heigl from Grey's landed a movie and it was during the time they were shooting the show. TPTB made changes/allotments so that she could take the project. During the filming of the movie and Grey's she appeared on a nighttime talk show and had the audacity to complain about having a 16 hour workday. She left out it was the only way they could give her the necessary time off. Totally left it out. So one the the producers anonymously blasted her by posting online that the crew had to arrive earlier and stay later to accommodate her and they are paid a fraction of her salary. So how about showing some gratitude vs complaining?