but my mouth is shut. At some point she is going to have to own those mistakes.
that you are so laser-focused on your exit plan. It’s going to feel so good to give them your resignation notice. Even though they are treating you badly, they will be shocked that you’re leaving. Your manager-who-doesn’t-manage is an idiot. Because you’ve been a good employee for ten years, he’s taking you and the work you do for granted and he’s assuming wrongly that you won’t leave. I’m rooting for you!
Yes, they will be quite shocked! Like I'm just going to put up with this behavior and lack of respect??!