We were footing the entire cost of the VRBO. And as discussed, we expected them to buy some groceries for the rental once we got settled in.
We had also told them that we didn't have to spend the entire time together. We could JW for a few hours so they could do whatever. We could do some things together, but then go our separate ways later. Meeting up for dinner or back at the rental to sleep.
I sent a text telling we are thinking of canceling the rental unless she tells me not to. So, now I see if I get any response in the next day or so.