she thinks I'm talking down to the minute, when really all I want is to know what activities she prioritizes so I can pick a day and a very rough time (as in "morning, afternoon or evening?").
And ITA about not everyone doing everything. For my 25th birthday, bff and I, along with two friends, went to Disney World. One of the other friends was a spoiled (grownup) child who wanted everyone to do everything she wanted to do, when she wanted to do. One of the days we were visiting, we were at Hollywood Studios and the spoiled child wanted to see the stuntman show. Bff and I had no interest but the other friend (the spoiled child's older sister) was willing to go. Spoiled child had a meltdown; either we all went or nobody went! We didn't go and spoiled child sulked about it for HOURS.