Last yr she booked a place that did not fit my needs at all but I agreed so I went along to get along until....she critized me for making accommodations for myself due to her requirements. Admittedly it set me off and usually I just shugg things off. We haven't spoken since she loudly, in public, in front of our friends nastily critized me for making my own plans. We've always gotten along even though I've always known its her way or the highway, no more, I just can't get over this one.
Travel plans are always hard as everyone has their own requirements and desires for what they want to do. I hope you get this straightened out better than I did! Also, if I'm traveling I want to visit places the area is known for. Why travel so far and turn around for home with no involvement in the culture of the place your visiting?