Sam is allowed to have a NEW perspective now that she is a mother and the reality has hit how dangerous it is to be married to a mobster as an adult and that was amplified with what happened to Morgan and Sam erupted after the bomb at the Floating Rib went off. Danny could have been injured or killed. She went off on Jason then.
Danny should not have to pay for the choices Sam made while she was in love with Jason Morgan. People are allowed to change their minds, mature, and know better. Her priorities have changed now that she is a mother...Period!
I think it's great that you can still see someone else's POV who is in conflict with a favorite character. Many and I mean many people cannot do that. They will defend their favorite character(s) regardless of the scenario.